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| Church wedding Source: Church of England |
While Anglican clergy, and Church in Wales bishops in particular, pursue their goal of same sex marriage in church, the latest figures indicate that fewer people are opting to make their relationship official with a traditional church wedding.
Figures published in Christian Today show that just 54,000 people chose a church wedding in 2017 - the lowest number on record - marking a steep drop from 184,000 in 1987. Religious ceremonies overall accounted for less than a quarter (23%) of marriages between opposite-sex couples in 2017.
"The statistics reflect a general drop in the number of people tying the knot, with a total of 242,842 marriages in England and Wales, down 2.8 per cent on the previous year and the lowest since records began in 1862. Of these marriages, some 6,932 were between same-sex couples.
"The statistics reflect a general drop in the number of people tying the knot, with a total of 242,842 marriages in England and Wales, down 2.8 per cent on the previous year and the lowest since records began in 1862. Of these marriages, some 6,932 were between same-sex couples.
"The figures continue to show a long-term decline in heterosexual couples choosing to wed, with numbers falling by 45% since 1972."
Ironically the bishops' desire to extend marriage in church to same sex couples occurs while traditional marriage ceremonies are in steep decline, as is church attendance in general.
Instead of following official teaching on Weddings, Anglican bishops in Wales along with the House of Bishops in the Church of England pander to secular trends in a mistaken attempt to appear more relevant to society.
From the Church in Wales Order for Holy Matrimony:
"Marriage is a gift of God through which husband and wife may grow together in the knowledge, love and service of God. It is given that, united with one another in heart, in mind and in body, they may increase in love and trust. God joins husband and wife in life-long union as the foundation of family life (in which children are born and nurtured and) in which each member of the family, in good times and in bad, may find strength, companionship and comfort, and grow to maturity in love. Marriage enriches society and strengthens community."
Ironically the bishops' desire to extend marriage in church to same sex couples occurs while traditional marriage ceremonies are in steep decline, as is church attendance in general.
Instead of following official teaching on Weddings, Anglican bishops in Wales along with the House of Bishops in the Church of England pander to secular trends in a mistaken attempt to appear more relevant to society.
From the Church in Wales Order for Holy Matrimony:
"Marriage is a gift of God through which husband and wife may grow together in the knowledge, love and service of God. It is given that, united with one another in heart, in mind and in body, they may increase in love and trust. God joins husband and wife in life-long union as the foundation of family life (in which children are born and nurtured and) in which each member of the family, in good times and in bad, may find strength, companionship and comfort, and grow to maturity in love. Marriage enriches society and strengthens community."
Mistaken ideas of equality, misrepresenting biblical meanings of love and substituting constructions of gender in place of traditional sexual identification have not enriched society or strengthened the community. More often they have led to confusion, bitterness and resentment.
The so called 'inclusive' churches have excluded far more Anglicans than thay have recruited as illustrated by the overall decline in attendance.
Those now complaining about being locked out of their churches under Covid-19 distancing rules are experiencing what they have previously forced on others who, along with the majority of Christians, including Anglicans, did no more than try to adhere to the traditional catholic and apostolic faith handed down through generations.
Those now complaining about being locked out of their churches under Covid-19 distancing rules are experiencing what they have previously forced on others who, along with the majority of Christians, including Anglicans, did no more than try to adhere to the traditional catholic and apostolic faith handed down through generations.
A salutary lesson indeed.
Me again. You state, "The so called 'inclusive' churches have excluded far more Anglicans than they have recruited as illustrated by the overall decline in attendance". And I must respect your position and feelings although they are not the same as mine.
ReplyDeleteHowever:
1. The published statistics (as far as I can see) don't say anything about former Anglicans who no longer attend church, nor (more specifically) about the reasons why those former Anglicans no longer attend church. A survey would need to ask several searching questions to establish those facts. I know that anecdotally you are hearing of many Anglicans who feel "shut out" of their churches, but one would suspect that you are conversing largely with like-minded people rather than a comprehensive sample.
2. It is clear that even committed Christians are attending church less frequently than they used to. Weekly attenders may now be fortnightly or even monthly. This would markedly affect the figures even if there were no change in the religiosity of the nation - although I'm sure that that change is in fact real.
3. Is the decline definitely caused by people leaving the Church? And if so, why are they leaving? They may have many reasons, which could even include people who disagree with its stance on NOT marrying same-sex couples!
4. Or is the decline largely due simply to older folk dying and sadly not being replaced by younger folk? - either because they're not attending church at all or are decide to attend "new" churches?
All I'm saying is that your assertion, whether true or not, is incapable of being proved by the actual data to hand. This article (based on an excellent book written quite a few years ago now) gives some insights into why people leave churches: https://www.reality.org.nz/articles/32/32-jamieson.php